It’s baseball season, and for me, that’s a big deal as I did not think I’d be coaching this year due to having to pick up a W-2; read this piece if you missed that story:
Fortunately for me, a new 15U team was created this year, and they needed a head coach.
I’ve found success in Youth Sports over the years, by recognizing that coaching a baseball team is about more than just teaching the game - it's about being a leader who inspires players to be their best selves both on and off the field.
In this piece, we’ll discuss five ways I believe will help you be a more effective coach and inspire your team to give their all.
1. Get to Know Your Players
First things first - you need to get to know your players on a personal level.
Understanding their personalities, strengths, and weaknesses will help you tailor your coaching style to each, making them feel seen and heard. I don’t schedule regular one-on-one meetings; instead, I find a way to make them happen naturally. During that time, we discuss their current mindset, morale, their goals for the season, and how I can support them in achieving them.
Creating a personal connection with your players will foster a positive team culture and inspire them to be their best selves, which will have them perform their best as an athlete.
2. Communicate Effectively
Effective communication is key to successful coaching.
I talk a lot of shit with my players, being more sarcastic than anything else. Still, they know when it’s go time, it’s go time. Effective communication is a two-way street; it's not just about communicating your expectations clearly, but also listening to your players and valuing their opinions. You want to lead a team where everyone can speak and be heard.
Active listening shows your players that their opinions matter, and they'll be more likely to give their all when they feel heard and respected. This is especially important as your team ages.
At 15U, I’m damn near dealing with grown men.
3. Set Clear Expectations
Setting clear expectations for your players is crucial.
Each kid you coach needs to know what's expected of them both on and off the field. You can create a team contract outlining your behavior, attitude, and performance expectations, but I don’t use anything like that. Instead, I speak about how our team is to carry themselves, and that standard begins with me.
If you want a team that gives their all, then you need to do the same. If you want a team that values hard work, you need to be working hard in front of their eyes.
4. Lead by Example
As a coach, you are the leader of your team.
It's important to lead by example both on and off the field. Be present, show up on time, and demonstrate good sportsmanship. Don’t dress like someone who’d shit in a urinal, and maintain a healthy physique. By being willing to take ownership of your mistakes and being open to feedback from players and other coaches, you’ll create a culture of accountability and inspire your players to follow in your footsteps.
Do not ask more of your players than you’re willing to give yourself.
5. Show Your Appreciation
Finally, showing your appreciation for your players can go a long way in motivating them to keep pushing themselves. You can publicly recognize players’ achievements or privately thank them for their contributions. You may want to consider creating a "player of the week" program, as I’ve seen it work where you highlight a player who has gone above and beyond on the field or in practice each week. Again, I’m sharing what I’ve seen, not necessarily what I do; I do not do a player of the week; what I do is give out a “Game Ball” for exceptional performance. In some games, no balls are given away as no exceptional performance was shown, even with a win.
It’s human nature: Showing players that you appreciate their hard work will inspire them to keep giving their all.
Effective coaching is about inspiring your players to be their best selves both on and off the field.
By taking the time to get to know your players, communicate effectively, set clear expectations, lead by example, and show your appreciation, you can create a team that's motivated, focused, and ready to go above and beyond.
In my next Youth Sports piece, I’ll touch on the importance of getting parents engaged as that is a different beast, yet equally important.
Good Luck Coaches.
- Zachary Small
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Virtually the same way to lead a business team. Well said
Good lessons for life in general too. Very timely as my son is in year 3 of little league, and we have another game tonight. I’m not a coach, but I can see his coaches doing what you say.
Youth sports are great. Makes me wish I was into them when I was a kid.