Day 6: Your Body Is The Scoreboard
Your body has been keeping records.
Every drink you have ever had, every night you went to bed with alcohol in your system, every morning you woke up running on fumes and pushed through anyway, every time you skipped the gym because your body was still processing the night before, your body logged all of it…
It did not judge you or send you a warning; it just adapted, the incredible way that the human body does, doing its best to function inside the environment you gave it, but “adapting” is not the same as being optimized.
Here is what alcohol has been doing to you physically while you were busy not thinking about it.
It has been stealing your sleep
Not just cutting it short, but fragmenting the deep sleep your brain needs to process emotion, consolidate memory, and regulate mood. You thought you slept well after a few drinks because you fell asleep fast. You didn’t “sleep well,” you sedated yourself, which is a completely different thing.
It has been working against your body’s ability to recover.
Every workout you did while drinking regularly, you were doing at a fraction of the capacity you could have been operating at. Alcohol disrupts protein synthesis, spikes cortisol, slows fat burning, and dehydrates muscle tissue.
There’s nothing wrong with your body, and the aches/pains aren’t entirely due to age; you have been fighting yourself every time you stepped into the gym after a night of drinking.
It has been taxing your liver, your gut, your hormones, and your mental health in ways that are quiet enough that you stopped noticing them because you had no baseline for comparison.
You did not know how good you could feel because you had never given your body a long enough window without alcohol to find out.
I found out.
When I went sober in July 2020, the first two weeks were interesting. I didn’t sleep the first three days, and my body had been running on a certain chemistry for twenty years, so when the formula of my routine changed, my body did some changing too.
Sleep was strange (I started dreaming again).
Moods were unpredictable (I started feeling way more emotions)
Memory was noticeably improving (It has continued to improve to the present day)
I started waking up before my alarm and not hating it, I started finishing workouts and feeling like I had accomplished something, and I started having nights with my family where I was fully present, not partially there and partially somewhere else, and that felt good.
I noticed the low-level fog I had been living in for years was lifting; I didn’t even know it was there until it was gone.
Here is what the research says happens to your body when you stop drinking:
Within 72 hours, your sleep quality begins to improve
Within one week, your liver starts clearing, and your hydration normalizes.
Within two weeks, your skin starts to change.
Within one month, your mental clarity sharpens, your energy levels stabilize, and your liver function significantly improves.
Within three months, the cognitive fog that most drinkers live inside starts to clear in ways that are difficult to describe unless you have experienced it.
Think about what happens when you get sick…
You fight through it, you rest, you recover, and if everything goes right, you end up back where you started; “Back to normal.”
That’s the best-case scenario for most illnesses; you’re just trying to get back to baseline.
Sobriety doesn’t work that way…
When you put down the bottle and do the real work that follows, you don’t just recover back to who you were before you started drinking; you come out the other side as someone better than that person ever was.
Life is clearer, you are more present and capable, and you become a version of yourself that never existed before, because the work it takes to get sober builds things in you that a comfortable version of you could never have manifested. People are fighting just to get back to even; recovery takes you beyond that level.
Your body wants to heal, and it is not waiting for your permission; it just needs you to get out of the way.
You are now on Day 6.
Your body is already starting the work; you may not feel it yet, and depending on your history, you may feel worse before you feel better, especially if you were drinking heavily. Understand that your body is recalibrating, let it do what it needs to do, without the booze involved. It’s an important note to keep in mind that you cannot mistake the discomfort of healing for evidence that sobriety is not working.
Your Day 6 Sober-Challenge
Spend ten minutes today in silence: No phone, no screen, no podcast in your ear.
Sit with your body, notice what it feels like, what is tight, what is restless, what is tired, and do not try to fix any of it.
This is not meditation; it’s an inventory of the physical temple that is you. You are getting familiar with the body you have been living in, many of you for the first time in a long time.
Finally, write down one physical thing you are looking forward to getting back as you continue through these 31 days.
- Zac
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